How it all began . . .

The idea of adopting a child has long been a spiritual calling for us. We always knew in our hearts that when the time was right we would begin our adoption journey. Never could we imagine that it would be this miraculous.

Friday, March 14, 2008

Final Post....











How do I begin to articulate everything that needs to be said in this final post? Since we are no longer "waiting for Anthony", it is only appropriate that this be the last post.

Anthony was home forever on February 28th. As many of you already know, this date is truly a date of "coming home". For the past 5 years, this date has held its fair share of tears. It is the day that my biological father was called home to God. It is only fitting that his disapproval for our tears be graced by his compassion and love. I will forever know in my heart, that the fact that this is Anthony's "coming home" day is no coincidence. This "God wink" is one that will serve as a great bond for Anthony and his "Grampy".

The last few weeks have been filled with so much excitement and pride. I have been blessed with so many quiet moments with my son in which I look right into his eyes and just know that we have fufilled God's plan. I try to grasp the concept that this sweet person that God created has found his way all the way here to our house. We have broken through so many obstacles, barriers and hurdles to embrace him and bring him to where God has intended him to be.

Make no mistake, we certainly could have NEVER done this journey without so many of you. In fact, it is because of each and every one of you that we kept up the fight. We have learned one of life's greatest, humbling lessons through all of this - we are surrounded by people who love and believe in us. People who, no matter what, will be there to rally behind us and pick us up when we fall. We are so grateful for that.

The blessings that we have collected along the way are too numerous to articulate. Family, friends (new and old), support, guidance, financial help, prayers, kind acts, etc. - all have been so greatly appreciated. When I think back on the most difficult days of this journey (and Lord knows there were many of them!) I am quick to couple those thoughts with a blessing that quickly followed.

It is especially nice to have so many people that are checking in on us. People who have been with us since day one and have stayed the course. For many of you, it has been truly miraculous watching your love and acceptance blossom. To see your concern for our well being gradually shift from worry to rejoicing! It fills my heart with pride and love!

I am told so often that "Anthony is so fortunate to have such a wonderful family. You are such good people for doing what you have done for him.". Those are such kind words and meant with so much love. Funny though.......Now that we are all home and looking towards tomorrow, I realize that WE are the lucky ones. WE needed him just as much as HE needed us.


And they lived happily ever after.



7 comments:

Becky said...

Welcome home!! Enjoy, I too hear that our son is lucky to have us and I'm telling everyone that we are the lucky ones to have HIM. Good luck!!

Becky and Jack

kathy Martin said...

You have a beautiful lifetime story! Thanks for sharing! Many blessings to your family as Anthony grows! Do stay in touch!
Kathy
no longer waiting on Greyson!

GDS said...

Well said my friend!

And welcome home little Anthony!

MA said...

His Memere needs him also.
Now I can hug and kiss him all up.
He is so very precious.
Thank you
Ma

Our Guatemalan Princess said...

And they lived happily ever after....the perfect ending to a perfect journey to Anthony!! All at Godspeed, Tammy! And yes, God's wink is proof! Not a coincidence, we know that. Now a new chapter begins...

Welcome home Anthony - your mom and family waited so long, and the journey was worth every minute. Your mom and dad were so happy to have you in their forever arms the day I met them; and you, you were crawling everywhere, smiling, and content. It was like you didn't know any different! Everyone's hearts were warm and filled with joy.

Tammy it is a privilege and pleasure getting to know you! Your insights and words of encouragement has been meaningful. As you know this journey is not for the weak, and we grow stronger from it.

Enjoy this new chapter of your life with Anthony and your girls. Such a beautiful family you have.

Many Blessings & ((((Hugs))))
Lesa
Gabrielle and Joe's Mom
PS--Anthony is so handsome! Watch out, those deep brown eyes will work wonders for many years to come! xo

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Anonymous said...

We love you Anthony ❤️